Thread: Difficult passage?

I would really appreciate help with a difficult passage from a girl that I care very much about.

Si yo no he aceptado tus propuestas no es por que no me intereses, si no que ami me gusta que las cosas se den con el tiempo, con los tratos, no soy mujer que conoce a un hombre y al momento ya esta en amores, soy muy carinosa, si, pero no he querido comprometerme con nadie, si, porque la vida me ha ensenado a ser asi, y si, como tu dices, he tenido malas experiencias y sufrimientos que me han dejado muy marcada, perdoname

If I haven't accepted your proposals, it's not because I'm not interested in you. I like things to play out over time, while we get to know each other. I'm not a woman who meets a man and is instantly in love. I am very caring, yes, but I have not wanted to compromise myself with anyone because life has taught me to be this way. And yes, like you say, I have had bad experiences and suffering which have left me badly marked. Forgive me.

I'm not sure about "con los tratos." I think it means as we get to know each other, while we deal with each other, while life happens over time. I'm sure others will contribute refinements to my translation.

Mariaklec, thank you so much for you help. This relationship is so vital to me.